Ways To Make Your Husband Love You More....

It is no longer news hearing that couples are breaking up or experiencing problems in their marital lives. While the society has chosen to see this as a norm, it is far from being normal.

We need not tell you the reasons why people come together in holy matrimony to become one; we need not talk on the expectations of individuals who venture into marriages. But one thing that is certain is that they go into it to work on themselves.

It is far from the expectations of couples for them to divorce or drift apart in their sojourn as husbands and wives. And in this present day generation, it is pathetic seeing young married people that are separated or those who still live in the same house but with love that has grown cold.

The society lays more emphasis on the women and the role they have to play to make their marriages work. As a matter of fact, most people think it is totally up to the women to build their homes and make something out of the union. On this note, it would be great for us to drop our own disclaimer.

Women should not, in a bid to savage things, succumb to domestic violence. They should learn to speak up and walk out from abusive relationships. As a woman, below are some of the things you could do to make your husband love you the more:

1. Call him pet names

It is boring calling your husband by your child’s name; he had an identity before he became a father. Use beautiful words for him, generate your own unique name and make him feel special.

2. Allow him to be the head No man wants his authority to be challenged as the head of the family. Learn to make him the head in his jurisdiction; do not make him feel less of a man by questioning his authority. Even if you earn more than him, being submissive would make him love you more and respect you.

3. Learn to say sorry when you are wrong

Saying sorry saves you from further fights and arguments. As a woman, it may be up to you to let peace reign. Please, sorry and thank you are words we should learn to use always. Do not say apologize grudgingly, do it with a gesture of affection.

4. Make him his favorite dish when he is broke

Men go through lots of mental stress when they are broke. This is because they know they have a family who depends on them for their survival. You can ease your husbands’ stress by making him his favorite meal when he is low on cash. By doing this, you are lending him support and inspire him to be better.

5. Do not leave his affairs to the maids

If your husband is as important as you say he is, then make it your duty and yours only to serve him and tend to his needs. Do not assign a maid to him as he could become so used to them and choose the maids over you. Your husband would love you more when he sees the efforts you make in seeing to his welfare.

6. Drop him short notes

Women should stop using children as excuses. Your husbands married you as a woman, not as a mother. Do not stop being that woman because you are now a mother. Remember the children would leave some day and you would be alone again. Would you be strangers or friends then?

Drop him notes and call him to check on him while he is working.

7. Help him undress each day

If you want your husband to love you more, make it your duty to give him a warm embrace when he returns. Help him undress and rub his back while he is having his shower. This would draw you two closer each day and help him save his energy for you.

8. Learn to pray for him

While you do not like to be disturbed early in the morning, adapt to a new system of waking up while he gets up to dress for work. Pray for him and pray with him. It would give him a sense of assurance; he would also love you more for that. If there are other women apart from you, they would gradually lose their holds on him.

9. Do not starve him sexually

Most women make their husbands beg them before they agree to sleep with them. This is wrong! A man is expected to wake up with a hard on, be readily available for this. He may be too tired at night to lift a finger so touch him then till he gets the urge to drive into you.

10. Encourage him to take care of his family members

The woman is the home maker. While your husband is busy striving to put food on the table for you and your children, be a good partner by encouraging him to do so for his family too. His parents would respect you and speak for you when you have challenges.